Introduction

About 30% of men deal with premature ejaculation (PE) at some point. It’s one of the most common sexual issues men face. Condoms aren’t just for birth control anymore. Now they can help men last longer in bed too.

This guide shows how special condoms can help with PE. We’ll cover how well they work and how to choose the right ones for you.

What Is Premature Ejaculation?

PE happens when a man climaxes sooner than he or his partner wants. It’s normal to finish early now and then. But if it happens a lot and upsets you, it might be PE.

Doctors sort PE into two main types:

  • Lifelong: You’ve had it since you first became sexually active
  • Acquired: It started after you used to have normal control

What Causes PE?

PE can happen for many reasons:

  • Mind: Stress, worry, feeling pressure to perform
  • Body: Hormone issues or a very sensitive penis
  • Lifestyle: Drinking, drugs, or not being active enough

Dr. Irwin Goldstein, a sex medicine expert, says: “PE often has many causes. Treatment may include changing habits, meds, and products like special condoms.”

How Special Condoms Help

Types of Condoms for PE

There are several condoms made just for lasting longer:

1. Delay Condoms

These have mild numbing agents like benzocaine or lidocaine inside. They make your penis less sensitive so you can last longer.

A study found that condoms with 4% benzocaine helped men last almost 4 minutes longer.

2. Thick Condoms

Regular condoms with thicker walls reduce feeling. Less feeling means more control.

3. Textured Condoms

Some have bumps or ribs inside. These create different feelings that may help you focus on something besides the main sensation.

Do They Really Work?

Research shows mixed results:

  • One study found men lasted 2-7 minutes longer with numbing condoms.
  • Another study showed 73% of men had better control with delay condoms.

Results vary from person to person. Dr. Michael Perelman, a sex psychologist, says: “Delay condoms help some men. They work best when used with other methods like the start-stop technique.”

Choosing the Right Condom

What to Look For

When picking a condom for PE, think about:

  1. Active ingredient: Most use benzocaine (4-5%) or lidocaine (1-2%)
  2. Material: Make sure it works for both you and your partner
  3. Fit: A good-fitting condom works better and feels better
  4. Extra features: Think about texture and lube

Popular Brands

Several brands make PE condoms:

  • Durex Performax: Has 5% benzocaine and texture
  • Trojan Extended Pleasure: Contains 4% benzocaine
  • Lifestyles Everlast: Uses climax control lube
  • Trojan Pleasures Extended: Has benzocaine and ribs

Dr. Jamin Brahmbhatt, a urologist, suggests: “Try different brands. Everyone responds differently.”

How to Use Them Right

Step-by-Step Guide

For best results:

  1. Check the date and package for damage
  2. Open carefully so you don’t tear it
  3. Put it on 10-15 minutes before sex so the numbing agent can work
  4. Add a drop of water-based lube inside the tip
  5. Leave space at the tip while pushing air out
  6. Roll it all the way down to the base
  7. Be careful not to touch your numbed penis to your partner’s sensitive areas

Safety Tips

  • Test first: Try the numbing agent on your arm before using
  • Watch for transfer: The numbing might affect your partner
  • Remove properly: Take it off right after finishing
  • Use once: Never reuse a condom

Combine With Other Methods

For better results, use delay condoms along with:

Physical Techniques

  • Start-stop: Pause when you’re close to climaxing
  • Squeeze: Press the penis when near orgasm
  • Deep breathing: Stay relaxed during sex
  • Kegel exercises: Strengthen your pelvic muscles

Mental Approaches

  • Mindfulness: Pay attention to feelings without judging
  • Therapy: Work on anxiety and negative thoughts
  • Talk to your partner: Less pressure can mean better control

A review of many studies found that using both physical methods (like delay condoms) and behavior changes works better than either one alone.

Possible Downsides

Side Effects

  • Less feeling: May reduce pleasure for some men
  • Partner numbness: Your partner might feel numb too
  • Skin issues: Some men get itching or redness
  • Allergic reactions: Possible with the numbing agents
  • Erection problems: Too much numbing might make it hard to stay hard

When to Try Something Else

Look into other options if:

  • You have bad side effects
  • Delay condoms don’t help enough
  • You or your partner have allergies
  • You’re trying to have a baby

Dr. Laurence Levine, a urology professor, notes: “Delay condoms are an easy option without a prescription. But they’re not for everyone. Some men need prescription treatments or therapy.”

What Experts Say

Dr. Abraham Morgentaler from Harvard Medical School explains: “Delay condoms won’t cure PE. But they can help manage it. They work best as part of a bigger plan that deals with both body and mind issues.”

Dr. Kristen Mark, a sex researcher, adds: “Many couples find that trying different methods, including special condoms, not only helps with PE but also makes them talk more and feel closer.”

Common Questions

Are these condoms safe to use often?

Yes, they’re generally safe when used as directed. If you notice irritation, try a different brand or talk to a doctor.

Will they make me permanently numb?

No, the numbing only lasts 30-60 minutes after taking the condom off.

Will my partner get numb too?

It’s possible, but modern delay condoms try to prevent this. Using extra lube and letting the numbing agent dry before contact helps.

How do they compare to delay sprays?

Delay condoms have less numbing agent than sprays or creams. They’re easier to use but might not work as strongly.

Can I use lube with them?

Yes, but use water-based lubes. Oil-based products can damage latex condoms. Silicone lubes usually work fine, but check what the maker recommends.

Wrap-Up

Special condoms offer one way to manage PE. While not a cure, they provide an easy option that doesn’t need a prescription.

They work better for some men than others. For best results, combine them with behavior changes, open talks with your partner, and dealing with any stress or worry.

If PE really affects your life or relationship, talk to a doctor. They can guide you through all your options, including special condoms.

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